When it’s all said and done, there are very few things that are required to make any night out successful. What constitutes success? That you had done everything possible in your power to minimize friction that prevents you from socializing with women and furthermore that you pushed as many interactions with women as far as they would go.
The following is a list of things that are absolutely imperative if you want to achieve consistency in night game, in no particular order:
Friction Eradication (All Done Before You’re Socially On)
- First and foremost, realize you are going out to SOCIALIZE and meet people. What does that mean? It means you have to GENUINELY want to meet cool new people or at the very LEAST be open to the possibility that it might be cool to meet them. If you go in with a preference to be anti-social, to not meet anyone or any of this, you are dead in the water before you even begin.
- Realize that you are most likely going to be scared, you are going to be gripped by fear, it is going to be pretty intense. Accept it. It’s a part of the process, it’s a part of life. Don’t give yourself more credit than you deserve. Tonight is not going to be the night you are going to all of a sudden not be afraid or tentative about getting going. Don’t let it blindside you when it comes. You can either deny to yourself that it’s coming or be ready for it when it does.
- Speed trumps anything else. By far. It is infinitely better to act on your impulse and go in stumbling, tripping over both your words and your feet like you’re mentally retarded than it is to hover in the background and think of the perfect opener or some bullshit
- Lower your standards for everything. How hot the girl you talk to has to be, how witty or funny or alpha or whatever bullshit the community spouts you have to be, how you want the interaction to go, wanting her to like you, your expectations for what kind of person she is, etc. Throw that pedestal or ditch for them away in your mind. They’re no better or worse than you. It’s interacting and meeting another fellow human being. No more, no less, and that’s why there is no expectation for what to say at all. Get over yourself, you’re not this super cool dude who’s always impressing others with their charm or coolness. You’re just a dude.
- Get to the introduction as soon as possible. That is the only purpose of opening. Everything you do until then is just some weak throw and go stuff that she has no obligation to entertain and certainly no obligation to take you as anything but a stranger
Seduction
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